| Understanding | Interdependence | Compassion | 
| To be heard
 To be Seen Empathy Presence Clarity 
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Community
 Belonging To matter Mutuality Inclusion Diversity Trust 
 
 
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Consideration
 Nurturance Warmth Respect Touch Love  | 
| Play | Autonomy | Meaning | 
| Sexual expression
 Inspiration Creativity Learning Humour  | 
Authenticity
 Initiative Freedom Integrity Choice  | 
Spiritual expression
 Contribution Appreciation Celebration Mourning Beauty 
 
 
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| Sustenance | Protection | Rest | 
| Movement
 Shelter Health Water Food Air 
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Physical safety
 Security Stability Support Order  | 
Peace of Mind
 Integration Harmony Space Ease  | 
Adapted from the Ongo book Catherine Cadden and Jessie Wiens Chu. From the work of Marshall Rosenberg Ph.D cnvc.org and Manfred Max-Neef